ONLINE Therapy FOR GAY MEN, TRANS & NON-BINARY PEOPLE, AND COUPLES & PARTNERS in CALIFORNIA
YOU’VE SPENT YEARS making yourself smaller. THIS IS WHERE YOU START TAKING UP SPACE.
YOU WANT TO FEEL AT HOME IN YOUR OWN LIFE.
TO STAKE OUT WHAT YOU WANT AND NEED, and actually believe you deserve it.
RIGHT NOW, YOU MAY BE…
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Feeling exhausted by the performance of it all.
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Losing sight of what you actually want.
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Vulnerability feels like a risk you can’t afford.
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Having the same arguments, the same shutdowns, the same quiet fear that love is fragile and you’re always one wrong move away from losing it.
Meet your therapist
MY NAME’S ANTHONY.
As an openly gay & sober therapist in California, I know firsthand what it means to do the work of becoming who you actually are, not who you were told to be.
I work with gay men, transgender and non-binary people, and couples and partners in all relationship structures, including those navigating questions about sex and sexuality. Using Internal Family Systems (IFS), somatic awareness, and attachment-based approaches, I help you build the kind of internal trust that makes real, lasting change possible.
My clients come away from our work together feeling more autonomous. They are clearer on what they want and need, more capable in their relationships, and equipped with real tools to manage their thoughts and feelings from a self-led place.
I'm directive, curious, and genuinely invested in where we're going. I'll ask a lot of questions and give compassionate, honest feedback. We'll also pay close attention to what's happening in your body, not just your thoughts. And together, we’ll work to build a more nurturing inner world so you can overcome the patterns keeping you stuck and experience the autonomy, connection, and self-trust you deserve.
here’s how to
GET STARTED:
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REACH OUT
Reach out and we’ll connect. I’ll answer your questions, you can get a feel for how I work, and we’ll make sure we’re a good fit before we begin.
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Get to work
Each week, we’ll investigate what’s underneath: the patterns, the parts, the stories you’ve been carrying. I’ll be direct and engaged, and together we’ll build the internal trust and practical tools that make living differently possible.
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See change
You’ll feel more grounded, more capable in your relationships, and clearer on what you want and how to ask for it. Life will feel more manageable and more like yours.
THIS IS WHERE YOU START BECOMING WHO YOU ACTUALLY ARE.
From caretaking to self-trust. From shame to belonging. From performing to finally feeling like yourself.
Ready to get started?